Norma brought life to one of the 25 orphanages in Kabul. As she tells the story, the staff did not know what to do with her when she wandered over one day asking how she could help. "They sent me to sit with the doctor, thinking that was the right thing to do," says Norma. But sitting idly by as an observer is not Norma’s style, so she began working with the pharmacist and nursing aide and was slowly able to observe the orphanages needs. "Basic cleanliness", she says.So she offered to wash hair, clean, teach tooth brushing – anything. When they responded to her suggestions with "dele shuma", that it was "up to her heart," she rushed to the bazaar and bought hundreds of toothbrushes and tubes of toothpaste. And that was the beginning of the tooth brushing game, Norma squatting with groups of 10-14 children, each proudly holding their new toothbrush, diligently practicing what Norma demonstrated. Her Farsi language ability, retained from her Peace Corps training, proved invaluable with the children, all craving love and attention.And clothing,And food.And activities.And she discovered there was no separate room for the sick children. "The sick ones were simply left among the healthy ones and the risk of mass contagion was very great," she says. Norma learned the only time the sick children were sent to the hospital is if they were going to die. "Not any more," she says with a twinkle in her eye.It was Norma who convinced the director that a storage room could be converted into a room where the sick children could be kept separate and treated there for their illnesses.A master at bazaar shopping from her Peace Corps years, Norma - using about $1000 of the money donated by Emery’s Ventura patients and friends – headed to the bazaar with an Afghan orphanage staffer. There they contracted for the construction of bed frames at the bed bazaar, mattresses and pillows sewn and stuffed at the mattress bazaar, (a big pillow stuffed with cotton batting) and for a locking medicine cabinet at the cabinet bazaar. They found material for window curtains and paint to freshen up the room.While Norma would like to see more doctors available for the orphans – right now there are only two doctors to take care of two orphanages, one with 850 children plus staff and one with 1200 children plus staff – she nonetheless considers her time spent therea true success story. She is anxious to return to continue her successes.Documenting the most recent trip was a Ventura resident intrigued by the Afghanistan photos in Cedric’s office who insisted on going along once he heard of the Emery’s adventure. Jed Harris, director of operations at Pure Tech Inc, Ventura, documented the trip, organized the creation of a CD and DVD by Brooks Institute of Photography student Ryan Reeves, to promote the Emery’s work, and created a web site – www.helpafghanistan.org.Before flying to Afghanistan, Jed connected with a Bay Area organization Roots For Peace (www.rootsofpeace.org), an organization that raises money to remove land mines and help communities implement a sustainable agricultural program. He traveled on their behalf to take photos in the minefields as well as for the UN land mine survivor assistance program in Ghazni that needed pictures as well.Jed says much time was spent roaming the minefields in full armor, "with the occasional rocket attack from the old Taliban and the occasional thump of mines being detonated." He says the heart grueling time he spent was at the land mine victim assistance clinic, seeing the maimed adults and children learning to use their new, oftimes crude, prosthesis. "An average of 8-10 people a day, mostly women and children, fall victim to landmines in Afghanistan."Officials estimate that there are upwards of 10 million landmines in the soil (in a country about the size of Texas). He goes on to explain that land mines are meant to maim, not kill, so the lasting effects on the individual and the community are devastating. "Anytime you step off the pavement in Afghanistan, you are at serious risk of losing life or limb!"Jed observed how the assistance clinic operates with a lack of tools or the raw materials (poly-propylene plastics - 3mm and 5mm) used for making prosthetics. Then there is the challenge of housing for patients that travel days by donkey cart or on foot to the clinic and require food and shelter for their stay. And then, most importantly, says Jed, "most of the Afghans have no formal training in ortho technology. They simply make a prosthetic from scratch and fit it accordingly. For example, the only tool they may have is a shard of glass for shaping a leg! Imagine how much time and patience this takes!" Jed says he came away with admiration of the Afghan’s excellent craftsmanship.Did a war atmosphere surround them in Kabul? Yes. Its ravages within the hospital let alone outside its walls, the ongoing danger of landmines, snipers, the lack of basic living supplies for the people let alone medical supplies for the doctors, medicine for the people. Did we mention the rocket explosions in the distance while they worked? Then there is the unspoken, non-tangible simmering anger of the ousted Taliban rumored to be plotting against in-country westerners to discredit the international outreach programs trying to help rebuild the country. More than one NGO or foreign aid worker has been shot to death in the past few months. And not by being caught in cross fire.The Emerys go anyway. Because they can. And they want to. They have something to give. The consider their gift nothing compared to Dr. Manawi’s sacrifice of sending his children to Germany when the Russians invaded in 1979. "It was safer," says Cedric of his colleague’s decision. And later, with the rise of the Taliban, doctors were not their favorite people and families were often also targeted. But Dr. Manawi stayed…to help his people. "And we can go home to comfort," says Norma. "The Afghans, they can’t leave. This is their life. Why not make it a little easier?"Of their own motives, the Emery’s wave off the question. "When you’ve got something someone else doesn’t have, you have a choice. Our choice is to share it," says Cedric.In April the Emery’s will return for the third time since November 2002.On their own dime. On their own time.
